We run a variety of sites for different locations and interest groups. As a member of gothic souls you can choose whether only people from gothic souls can contact you, or you can expand your contacts by choosing to allow people from other sites to contact you.

In Profile Settings you will see the choice of settings below. Choose the appropriate one and then save.

Allow anyone to contact you.
Only allow users of this site to contact you

This setting can be changed quickly and easily at any time.

Advanced Options for restricting contacts

If you want to set advanced criteria for who can contact you (e.g. only members aged 25-35 yrs, only members looking for a 'Relationship') see Restrict Contacts